My life revolves around Gillian Flynn's books, dark lipsticks, twisted fiction a lot of black color. I have a pale brown skin so dark lipsticks go with it v well, I love pastels when I'm in a mood of light colors. But a few days ago when I chopped my hair too short, someone told me to be more girly because cutting my hair wasn't girly to him. It was confusing because a few years ago, a person from family had told me that I was too girly with all that drawings, glitter on my face and too many crushes in my head. And I forgot to ask what's wrong with too girly.
And it suddenly felt too confusing to handle.
Cutting my hair short isn't girly? WHAT THE BLOODY HELL IS GIRLY?
Here are Noor's top 2 masterpieces: Me & her color palette which I took because it fits "too girly" criteria.
Now let me have an important talk with you all. I think I'm too girly because I was born like this; a girl. My organs are girly, my skin is girly, my hair is girly because goddammit I'm a girl. Associating colors and themes with a gender and using it against it is senseless. If anyone thinks that too much pink is too girly, let me correct that it's just a choice. Wearing dark lipsticks isn't not-girly. You won't tell a guy who's playing his video games that it's too boyish to play video games all day long so it's better to let girls draw or put on make up and just be girls not TOO GIRLY.