25 July 2014

Heart breaking moments for Bloggers

I've been thinking of writing this post for a while because every Blogger has a her/his own heart breaking moment and it HURTS inside, somewhere in the middle of heart where the blogging part is alive. And when I say it hurts, it actually does.

No good emails found
My morning rituals include checking emails before going to brush. And in that case, if I'm unable to find a good email, MY DAY IS RUINED. I keep telling myself that I am a bad blogger and nobody likes to email me. Nobody loves me. Nobody. NO EFFING BUDDY! Good emails are a must. If they're not in your email box, you feel bad. You really do. Good emails are like a letter from another blogger, a blogger notification, a new ad, a new opportunity, a secret admirer of your blog & maybe a reply from your favorite blogger. If they're not in our email boxes, I swear we feel bad!

There are 0 Twitter notification
"Well, this hurts the most. Zero notification? Like seriously? I tweeted the most awesome tweet 2 minutes ago and nobody favorited it. Are you guys serious? I'm don with you all."
But obviously you're not.
When I tweet something good, I keep an eye on my tablet to catch a new notification from Twitter. You never know how happy a blogger can be when there are 20+ notification at once. C'mon, it's time to celebrate!

Blog design is screwed up
NO JUST NO. Let's not think about the Blogger's nightmares. I mean, a messed up blog design is simply a nightmare and the only difference is that your HTML is really screwed up! This literally gives me shivers when I think about old times where I accidentally ruined my whole new design and it took me 5 hours to remade it. You can imagine the terror. Oh terror.

A long written comment is VANISHED
I'm a good commenter sometimes, I don't spam people with nice post comments or follow for follow because it's against the laws of Blogland. But it breaks my heart when I write a really long comment and it suddenly it goes away. Blogger, why you do this to us? Then I usually give up and leave. Sighs.

A bad comment
Nice post comments, asking for follow comments, asking to check a blog comments, "Nice outfit " comments on a painting post comments, random-companies-spamming-you comments, your-class-fellows-spamming-your-blog-with-anonymous-profile comments, a rude person leaving hate you in comments.

Or no comment at all
This hurts the most and breaks my heart into million pieces. When a zero-comments-moment show up, I'm like: "It was my fault. I didn't write it as good as I use to write. It's all my fault. I suck! Now my readers hate me!" And this s the reality.

Somebody unfollowed
The headline goes like: NO WHY WHAT PLEASE I LOVED YOU! Last week, I lost 5 followers on twitter. 5 FOLLOWERS LOST. You can imagine that was a really heart breaking moment. When someone follows, it feels like I am doing a good job. But when someone unfollows, I know what to do. Complain this to everyone you meet in next few hours and be sad for a while. Easy peazy!

Somebody steals your content
This is horrible. There are a few copy cats that are rude enough to use your photographs without your permission and put their OWN watermarks on them. This is the worst thing that can happen to a Blogger. For me, blogging is about being original and have your unique voice and stuff. When I read that someone stole something from my favorite blogger, I feel so bad. Because this is simply wrong.

Nobody reads my blog
Low pageviews & low analytics. This is my BIGGEST HEART BREAKING MOMENT. Let's stop this talk here because I literally cannot even.
I can't even.
I am unable to even..
I have lost my ability to even.
I am so unable to even.

What are your heart breaking moments when it comes to blogging? Share them here and we might get a book published!

Linking up with Nicole & Ash!

18 comments:

  1. My blog design had a major meltdown last week and I just about lost it! That would definitely be at the top of my heartbreaking list :(

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  2. OMG I couldn't agree with these more! It's so true! I was just about to write a post about mean spirited commenters, and content stealers

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  3. HAHA oh hun I completely agree- I get some people who read my posts and it's like 'nice shirt' or something it's like I AM WEARING A FRIKIN DRESS AND THIS POST IS ABOUT SHOES. Or the hey check out my comp or hey I'm following you but I am not really.follow me back people. I only had problems with HTML when I had Tumblr but everytime it messed up I just sat and cried hahaha. I LOVE YOU xx

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  4. This is hilarious! Points are all spot on!

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  5. Lo behold. I can relate to all of it. Low page views and zero comments. Man.

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  6. Yes. I can't even when I get unfollowed, low/no comments or no good emails. It totally demotivates me.

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  7. Yes yes and yes! I can totally relate!:) to all of this! Excellent post! Glad I'm not the only one who feels that way!

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  8. OMG! Did you read my mind? totally relate.

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  9. Love this and it's very true. I recently and for a while have felt this way. So I totally see where you're coming from. Don't let it get you down or quit blogging.

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  10. hahah this is so funny. I agree about long comments vanishing though. Thats the worst and then I get paranoid that Ill re-write it and the original and the re-written version will show up. Yup I think too much!

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  11. Oh wow, I can relate to a few of these. The Twitter one, yeah I hate it when no one notices my writing awesomeness confined to 150 characters. Blog layouts, man I HATE that. I am horrible with HTML too. I currently have a square advert thing that isn't centred and pops up annoyingly after each post, breaking the overall flow. I have no idea how to fix it since it doesn't show up in blogger and well HTML I have no idea how to find it so I left it there :o(

    Sxx
    www.daringcoco.com

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  12. Hahahaha! 100% true! But but but you're an awesome blogger!

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  13. my husband of 9years left me just because i could not give him A child, i did all i could to make sure i give him a child, i even went to an extent of forcing him to have sex with me every night but could not work. not untill one evening when i was browsing through the internet, i saw a comment on how a woman in same problem like mine was made home by A man called Dr onofe. i read about him and decided to contact him for help, i did as he ask me to do but i was still wondering how can someone just bring back my love he don't even know but i keep doing as he ask me to do. i was very surprise one morning my husband came and started begging me to come back to his life. at first i pretend to be angry then i accepted him back. Dr onofe also cast a spell for me to make me have children and as i speak right now i am a mother with 3kids. if there is any one out there who needs his help you can contact him through his personal EMAIL: onofetemple@yahoo.com or website: http://onofetemple.wix.com/http i wish you good luck

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